Student profile
Accepted into Amherst and Purdue University | |
GPA: 3.76 | SAT: 1470 |
Extracurricular activities: Volunteer, Computer Science, MESA |
The lessons we take from obstacles we encounter can be fundamental to later success. Recount a time when you faced a challenge, setback, or failure. How did it affect you, and what did you learn from the experience? 593/650
During the four-hour bus drive back home, our MESA supervisor told me that she noticed our struggles in the competition. She wanted to know more, but I couldn’t tell her much, since I was still quite shocked by the arm’s unexpected malfunction. She seemed to notice my stupefied look, so she patted me on the back and said, “It’s unfortunate that you lost the competition, but are you ready to accept it?”
I pondered her question and suddenly understood that she was concerned about my attitude towards failure. During the bus ride, I realized that I was frustrated because I didn’t know what to do about it. It soon hit me to change my frustration to open-mindedness so I could learn from this experience and do better. It was honestly quite as simple as that, and it made me chuckle. When I got off the bus, I had learned that life will be unpredictable and I will fail if I let defeat overwhelm me. To prevent getting overwhelmed by failure, I learned to be open to the possibility of failure.
I had the chance to apply this perspective during my summer internship at a tech startup, where I was hired to add some functionality to the company’s website. My boss told me to employ agile programming, which is a way of speeding up the process of getting a product out. Initially, I struggled with this style of programming, and one time I actually failed to produce anything for a meeting. Although I was initially very embarrassed, I quickly pulled myself together to determine what I needed to do. It became clear to me that my mindset of producing the “perfect” product was slowing me down. It soon occurred to me to focus on making a functional prototype, even if it had some bugs. With this new understanding, I improved the product substantially after each meeting. In the end, my boss was pleased with my results, despite the rough beginning.
One of my favorite philosophers, Friedrich Nietzsche, once said, “To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering.” It sounds negative, but this perspective is one of my keys to happiness in life. I know I feel the happiest when learning something, rather than beating myself up over a failure. I discovered that these failures can teach me new perspectives and even pave the way for deeper understanding, solutions and new opportunities. As a result, I developed the ability to reorient myself when circumstances change, the strength to meet challenges head on and the courage to fail.